February

Hottest and driest month. February. How nature tease. The looming dark clouds followed by the impending heavy downpour. All but just a few drops. Enough to stain the ground. Leave many wanting more. This has been the weather of February.

Crumblingface

Not done intentionally but disintergrated over the last two years. Found this at brother's kitchen. Wonder if the swedish furniture giant will refund or replace. Brother finds it artistic :D

Simple Pleasure

This is how she spends her time. Weeding the grass and picking away all the dried leaves in the morning before the sun gets too hot. After breakfast she sits in front of the telly reading the papers listening to the news as she waits for evening. Watering the plants at dusk before taking a shower for dinner. A daily routine in her twilight years. A far cry from the days when she spent 10hrs, 6 days a week running her company. With a dependable maid to keep an eye on her. To be sure she remembers to take her medication and meals. She hardly speaks and has never watch any chinese/english series. This is how she finds simple pleasure. With her plants.

Keeping In Touch

Finally, some quiet time. It's been a week since we drove up north for our family dinner. A chance to catch up with the family news. Mum made sure I had a dose of her stew pig trotters while mum in law, her homemade keropok. Brother is all excited anticipating the inpending move while sis in law filling us in on her venture. A pilate instructor at her new studio. As youngest niece & nephew are over the age of 12, gone all the days of playing fireworks and running around. Now, it's sit down party games. Giving a the green light, grandpa poured a warm sake for son at a japanese dinner. Coming of age.

A short trip of 4 days as son and youngest still had papers to sit for on the 4th day of the lunar new year.

My two little lion dancers from next door ushering in the Tiger Year.

HomeAlone

It's less than a week and no decision has been made. Where is he going to spent his weekend? Unable to participate in Our annual family trip up north. He has not the proper papers. His fluttering heart will show up as a bright red spot of the high tech scanner at the checkpoint.

Eldest is still thinking.

Jostling & Elbowing

Jostling and elbowing through the crowded streets on a sunday night. Many, like me, were there to soak in the sound, sight and sweat. The loud blaring of chinese songs, traders shouting out their ware. The street littered with jelly wrappers, peanut shells. Sellers stuffing into outstretched hands, sample of the cold made in Taiwan jelly cubes, peanuts & melon seeds. Hoping for a sale. Waxed ducks and sausages all deck out. Once, few years back I was shocked to spot hanging in one corner, a very flatten wax/cured Pig. A whole pig flatten. The colourful assortment of sweet winter melon, lotus roots, tangerines and coconut strips. What is Lunar New without a walk through Chinatown on a warm and humid sunday evening.

Telling a tale

Traditionally, MIL would start making almond, peanut, walnut, pistachio cookies and baking chocolate, orange and carrot cakes weeks before Chinese New Year. She then packs them into bags for her many friends and relatives. However last year, due to her progressive dementia, we had to discard more than 10 containers of cookies as, upon tasting, some were found to be inedible.

This year, SIL, has decided for the 1st time, to order cookies and cakes, deck them out, and guiltily tell MIL that she has already done all her baking. Hopeful MIL will not get confused for not remembering. Don't know if what we're doing is right. It was painful see all the cookies she has spent so much time making to be thrown away.

Growing Pains

When in pain or discomfort, some are willing to try any new health gadgets, supplements, ointments or therapies recommended by friends/colleagues or even sales personnels . Of course, on the far side of the scale, there is the sceptic, namely, me. Who view these die die must try recommendations with great suspicions. After all, one man's meat is another's poison.

Of late, MDH's knee has been giving problem. Upon checking with friends, a cream was recommended. After applying nightly for a week, the pain subsided. The cream worked!

I too had this problem, aggravated by my trotting. After much hestitation and seeing the positive result, I tried. For now I'll stick to the cream. As for popping multivit, probiotic, omega oil, psyllium husk and glucosamine, it'll will have to wait.

Because it's there

An excerpt.

7 June 1924

"My darling, I'm sitting in a tiny tent some 27.000 feet above sea level, and almost 5,000 miles from my homeland seeking the paths of glory. Even if I were to find them, it would be as nothing, if I am unable to share the moments with you........
I can see you at The Holt, sitting in your winged chair by the window, reading this letter and smiling as you turn each page. Look up, my darling, for at any moment you will see me march through those gates and come striding down the path towards you. Will you leap up and rush to greet me, so that I can take you in my arms and never leave your side again? Forgive me for having taken so long to realize that you are more important to me than life itself.
Your loving husband,
George"
Written in his final hours before ascending Mt Everest.

Read many of his books, but this one had me reading through the last few chapters again and again. A semi-autobiography on the man and what might had been in the last hours as he pushed his limits to be the first man to conquer Mt Everest. George Mallory.
He died while attempting. The question still unanswered. Was he ascending or decending when mishap struck him some 29 years before Edmund Hillary.
On the 14th of May 1995, his grandson fulfilled his grandfather's dream.

SomeoneSaid

"Insecurity and fear of changes breeds pettiness. The inability to share and accept changes show the lack of confidence in one's belief" Anon.

Adventure Wildlife

Kinabatangan River, at 560 kilometers is the second longest river in Msia. This wildlife santuary is known for it's remarkable wildlife and fascinating habitats. My last trip to the Pahang National Park at Kuala Tembeling was 20 years ago. The unforgetable sights and night sounds. Then, sleeping in tent by the river campsite, with 4 legged creatures running around and maybe a slithering snake. The only thing I could not do in the bushes, was the big business. No matter how uncomfortable the tummy was. The Nature Society of Spore is organising a 5D/4N trip in March to Kinabatangan river wildlife santuary. This time comfortable lodging.

saturday@home

Movie Night
Venue: Sitting room @ home
Movie: 2 episodes of Fringe
munchies: Cheese and Cracker
Drinks: white wine/Juice

Desk Bound

One resigned to care for her child. The other went on a two week medical leave for a minor hand operation. Meanwhile, here is one looking for a change. With more time on hand, A self earned income would mean a little guilt free indulgence. So it's back to a 9 to 5 keyboard tapping in the freeze zone. Being away from the desk for so long means having to ask many questions. It's a start.

Old and forgotten

Eldest spent two weeks of her break, behind the scene. Attached to a nursing home.

After the initial jolt, dressed in white, spent time observing and assisting in the works of caring for the elderly in the all female level.

During activity time, they chatted while exercising with them. Many in their 70s and 80s, suffering from some degree of dementia or health problems. A welcome reprieve for both the Myanmar healthcare personnel and the elderly. Having a helping hand and able to converse with the residents. Dialect was not a problem as eldest took a crash course of cantonese, hokkien/teochew and malay. From me of course!

Though, patient's information was strictly confidential. Eldest just had to report the daily happenings over dinner. Kicked at by one who refuse to shower. Spit at, for one refuse to eat. Had her hands held tightly as one grandma thought she looks so much like her granddaugther. With a thank you by these sweet old ladies, all was forgotten. After all they never meant what they did.

That was three weeks ago. Yesterday, she visited them. This time as a volunteer. She was delighted that many still remembered and welcomed her. For the residents, it's the weekend visitation that they so looked forward to. Sadly many spent the weekends hoping and longing in vain sitting at the activity room listening to the hustle and the bustle downstairs at the visitors' lounge.

Friend In need

A friend in need Is a friend indeed.

So true when coming home from a holiday with loads full of laundry. The washer stop dead mid-way.

Messaged my woes to my girlfriend next-door, hoping. The reply was instant. "Come over" When living away from families, it's good neighbours that makes a difference in calling a place home.

A brand New Year

The notebook malfunction,but it's fixed!
The washer when on strike, after persistent electronic tweaking,it's working(for now)
The misunderstanding with a relative, we met had lunch and, reconciled
The long lost cousin I so want to meet, I met(by chance) while holidaying
December has been a month of tying lose ends.

Here's Wishing all a Hearty, Healthy & Wealthy 2010

Walking under lights

Best way to enjoy the LightUp @ Orchard is to start from Plaza Singapura. Stroll pass the Istana and while enjoying the sights and lights, A huge blue LED facade of Orchard Central looms through the street decorations. The latest shopping & eating experience. Past the bright display and, another mall appear. 313@Somerset , the mall above the somerset Mrt. More shopping and eating adventure. Not to be out done, Meritus Mandarin 100m down the road, has gone through massive facade make over. Pass Takashimaya shopping centre's street decoration, Wisma Atria and onto the most talked about ION Mall. A 1.6km of lights and sights and good exercise!

Kneadless & delicious

Chance upon this book while browsing the library bookselves. Actually it's the title. Kneadless. Making bread without kneading. How was that possible? After reading thoroughly through the chemistry and science behind this method , it was action time. 24 hours later, two delicious, moist and chewy ham mozzarella pizza for lunch. The diners must be hungry for the pizza was gone before I could get a shot of it. This method was 1st featured in 2006. Not aware till now. Will be experimenting with the healthier bread recipe.

It's not what you are endowed with matters, but how you make the most of your endowment.

H for Stairs

Even when taking the escalator, start walking. On the right of course. According to TTSH doctors, walking up two flight of stairs not only burn more calories than a stroll in the park it but Also lengthen the live expectancy by 5.5 seconds. With flights of stairs at every nook & cranny, it's a good reason to pump up the cardio and live longer. Wonder if the effectiveness is the same on going up and coming down. Personally I would prefer coming down 10 storeys than going up.